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Warm lighting and wine

Yesterday was my parent's wedding anniversary. I feel awful that I kinda forgot....I mean I didn't forget forget, but nothing was planned. At the very least I would have liked to have taken them out to dinner. *Sigh* I suck.

Birthdays and anniversaries during the holidays can get sticky. Had I remembered my parent's anniversary in time, I still don't think I would've been able to do anything. *Double sigh* When I spoke with my Mom, she did say she was trying to get my father to go out to eat with her (he rarely ever eats out). I'm hoping that they did.

Actually, I think anniversaries only really need to be celebrated by the parties involved. Say, for instance, you and your spouse. But parentals can be an exception. My parentals are always an exception, as it should be! And the in-laws too.

Speaking of the in-laws, this year their anniversary (some months ago) was a special one.

We gathered at a charming place with exquisite cuisine

Warm lighting, a little wine, and waterfront view

I had one of the specials of the day

Oooo, the desserts! The small cookie shaped like a dog was the restaurant logo.

Here is the exterior and interior of the precious B & B where the celebratory couple stayed


This shot -- pensive, cozy, and warm -- is a favorite of mine.

And, hopefully, tomorrow will be a favorite of his....and be doubly outstanding.

Playing on the edge

While we decide what to do about our A/C (we need a new air conditioning unit), we have been sleeping at my sister-in-law's place. The heat is way worse than the inconvenience. But I was on edge yesterday morning. ON EDGE. And I blame the A/C (or lack thereof). Sadly, I don't respond well to my husband or the kids when I'm on edge. So I came real close to ditching the playdate. But I didn't.

The lil-man loves his playdates. And since he is no longer in daycare, I think the social interaction is good for him. Yesterday, he ran around, swung, slid, played some soccer, laughed and fell. Fell hard. Cut open chin, blood and all. Tough little guy.

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Playdates are really a hit or miss. Yesterday it was way too many girls. But afterwards the lil-man and I were invited to lunch. He and I plus a mommy-friend and her little girl. We headed over to Cheesecake Factory. During lunch, we both commented about how we've been in the group for over a year now and how we only go to playdates that the other happens to be going to. Which made me like her even more.

Besides lack of air-conditioning, I also have not been on Facebook lately. Truthfully, I need to quit Facebooking. But that might put me on edge again......actually, it may tip me way over.

The real picture


Waaaa

I had a long, loooong post with paragraphs and such. And then POOF! after all that typing and writing, I lost it. So here is the abbreviated version:

- Been home over a week.
- Laundry up the ying-yang.
- Luggage still by front door.
- Need to send out thank you cards. NOW.
- Halloween was (in the mountains) wet, cold, rainy and awesomely FUN!
- Pumpkin patch was (in Florida) hot, hot, and hot. And FUN too.
- Thanksgiving is next week. Crap.

Lastly, I must note that while driving in curvy mountains is adventurous & scenic, and being able to stay in a wonderful cabin is truly a blessing......driving with a 2 ½ year old toddler and 9-month old infant is HELLACIOUS. Don't let the pretty pictures fool you.

- Patrick, my 9-month old, would cry EVERY SINGLE TIME the car would come to a halt. Whether it was a stop sign, red
light, drive-thru, whatever. If the car wasn't moving, he was NOT happy.

- The lil-man, 2 ½ years old, was demanding. Even with his DVD player. "I need miiilk" "I want candy" "I need Blues Clues"

- If Patrick happen to be crying (which was any time the car was NOT moving), then the lil-man would demand he be "put
in time-out!" And how can I not laugh when my toddler is putting his 9-month old younger brother in time out?!

While that's the real picture, I may still post some more pretty pictures later, hopefully before Thanksgiving. Oy-vay.

The house that love built


Nothing decorates a home better than love. If you are putting your heart into it then obviously it will show. I enjoy noticing the little things when I visit a friend's (or family) home. Beyond the family portraits and the kid's artwork, it's the smaller touches. I never know how to do this at my own place, but I love when others do it at their place. An antique chair, artwork, or quilted throw. Vases, candles, crafts and other accessories. All especially chosen and perfectly placed.

On our recent trip to the mountains, we were lucky enough to have a family member offer their cabin. Quickly you realize this is not just any cabin. First, it was the family, they themselves, that built the house. Second, it is most definitely filled with love.... and you will find it in every nook and cranny.

One evening, on my way to bed, I noticed this tiny apple tree sitting on a shelf in the hallway. I imagined the careful shopping she must have done to acquire each and every item around the cabin. There was an apple theme in the kitchen, actually throughout the whole house.

apple knick-knacks mini apple tree

A local apple festival draws people each year to the area...... that plus the majestic mountains and the gorgeous autumn leaves.

We went to visit a friend of mine (who lived closeby), she sent us home with steak doggie bags and homemade applesauce (below). Deelish!

apples and applesauce

And here is the back deck where I would drink my morning coffee, enjoying the mountain air and breathtaking views.

rocking chair on deck

There was an upper deck and a middle deck and a lower deck. Definitely decked out!

upper deck deck cabin home


A beautiful reflection of the trees in the upper windows
reflections

A water wheel and pond that the lil-man enjoyed throwing rocks and playing around. front water wheel


Comfy country living and room for plenty
country living sleeping room

Nothing brings more love into a home than children. The cabin owner has over a dozen grandchildren (and room for all of them!).

During our stay, the lil-man and his brother Patrick were drawn to these cute things --- a guitar, antique wagon and a wooden rocking horse. They played with all of it, of course.

rocking horse antique wagon and guitar

The sunlight would pour into this room (another favorite of mine). It, too, was filled with antiques, quilts and artwork.

blue quilt bedroom

By far one of the best moments - that I will never forget - was when we hot tubbed under a moonlit sky looking up at the stars and sipping hot apple cider. (Pictured here is the hot tub during the day).

hot tub

Before leaving the cabin and heading back home, my husband cleared off the decks with a leaf-blower.

blowing leaves outside

And as I packed it all up, I walked along the front porch. I could hear it welcoming me back, asking me to come and sit for awhile.

on the porch

It was hard to leave. I could have surely stayed forever.

The Mom Blogs

For a while I had my blog description as the following:

Sometimes this may look like a mommy blog, sometimes you have to pretend.

While I was trying to be a bit snarky, I still believe it to be true. Sometimes this is your typical narcissistic blog all about moĆ­, and sometimes it's about the bambinos. So, with it being sometimes about the bambinos, I have decided to list it as such.

We are now part of The Mom Blogs.

In costume last month, still adorable this month

Quick emailing back and forth with a BFF today revealed that we both have good intentions, but no time. Sigh.

And even more evidence of this is the fact that a) I haven't shared much about my trip (yet!) and b) my "Pic-of-the-Week or Month" may have to change to "Pic-of-the-Year." But I try.

Plus this pic is a super cutie.

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So much to say, so much to say

Some mama drama in the mommy group, but that can wait (coming soon in a later post). Right now, I want to share my trip to the mountains with you. I don't know where to begin! There is so much to say and pictures to share (actually, pictures may have to wait later too).


Here are some conversations from the road

him: Is the car making a strange noise?

catsteevens (I'm the one driving): What?! Is something wrong? I don't hear anything.

him: Must be the sound it makes at 92 MPH.

catsteevens: roll my eyes and then ask, What's the speed limit anyway? Is it 70 or 80?

him: When have you ever seen the speed limit at 80 MPH!?

catsteevens: hmmph, he got me there.

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him: What's the matter?

catsteevens: I don't feel well. All the curves are making me dizzy (normally I am NOT the carsick type).

him: You can handle roller coasters but not a curvy mountain road?

catsteevens: I guess not. And roller coasters are over quickly, these curves are endless.

It's no wonder I felt so nauseous. Apparently we were driving on a famous stretch of highway called The Dragon. The 11-mile stretch of The Dragon is said to have 318 curves.

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We were heading home from trick-or-treating on yet another very curvy mountain road. It was dark and rainy....and did I mention CURVY? There are no railings along the road and you can pretty much see right down the side of these mountains.

catsteevens (thinking to myself): wow, steep and deadly .....must be some pretty horrible drunk driving incidents around here.

him: Can you imagine the drunk driving accidents? I bet they're nasty.

catsteevens: I was just thinking the same thing! .......they have to all be fatal accidents, or some talented drunk drivers.

Berlin Wall Fall - 20th Anniversary

Returning from vacation on a commemorative day!

While I was not in Berlin in 1989, I was there in 1996. I did get to see part of The Wall which was still standing in some areas. I recall doing a lot of walking that day. When we finally did come across it, you could only view it from behind a chain link fence. I have pictures from that trip....somewhere. Hmmm, I should look for those pics.

20th Anniversary of the fall of Berlin Wall

Dominoes stand in front of the Brandenburg Gate in Berlin, Germany.

Around 1,000 dominoes were placed on the former border near the Brandenburg Gate for the Festival of Freedom on the 20th anniversary of the fall of the Berlin Wall (Nov. 9th) and will collapse during the commemoration event.
AP Photo/Herbert Knosowski

Majestic greatness

I'm off to be reunited with my boys!

We will be playing in the leaves amongst these GORGEOUS mountains. Woo hoo!

USB, NPR, and laundry

  • I found a USB drive. As I investigated and opened the files, I came across a LOST AND FOUND file. The file listed contact information, in case the drive was ever lost. I'm guessing this is not something new. How incredibly useful. I think everyone should put a lost & found file on all their drives. Do you do this? When I called the owner, she was so happy!

  • I normally listen to NPR in the morning. But today, it was talk radio. They were discussing cheating. Like marital cheating. And the difference between emotional cheating and physical cheating. And what guys would get upset over versus what girls would get upset over. Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. I'm never cheating on NPR again, lesson learned.

  • Laundry. I have so much of it to do that it is literally, LITERALLY, making me nauseous.

  • Someone from Islamabad, Pakistan visited my site. I could not tell how they landed here, but I believe it has something to do with Triple Play Project (where The Pakistan Telecommunications Company Limited offers a ‘triple play’ service, enabling its customers to access more than 100 TV channels, digital subscriber line (DSL) Internet connection and a regular phone service on a single phone line). Not that I have ever mentioned Triple Play on here before, until now. Watch....I'll get a lot more Islamabad visits now!


  • Did I mention that BOTH my boys are away with their grandparents? Yes, they are. And did I mention how I cried and cried when they left? Yes, I did.

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